Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn – TikTok’s #1 Sex Educator on Why Relationships Are Failing | SRS #308
Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn is a tenured professor of Human Communication Studies at California State University, Fullerton, where she specializes in sexual and relational communication, online communication, and interpersonal relationships. Her work focuses on how people talk about intimacy, dating, culture, and long-term partnership and how communication shapes everything from attraction and compatibility to emotional connection and relationship longevity.
Dr. Tara earned her Ph.D. in Interpersonal Communication from Arizona State University after completing her graduate studies in human communication in California. Her academic research explores the science behind how people form, maintain, and sometimes lose meaningful relationships in a rapidly changing social and technological world.
Beyond the classroom, Dr. Tara has become a widely recognized relationship and sex expert, frequently appearing in major media outlets including Forbes, Cosmopolitan, Insider, and Men’s Health, and serving as a dating expert on the television series Celebs Go Dating. She is also the host of the Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast, a columnist for Women’s Health Magazine, and a co-host of the iconic relationship advice radio show Loveline.
Through her research, media work, and public education, Dr. Tara bridges academic science with real-world conversations about love, intimacy, communication, sexuality, and human connection, helping people better understand how relationships work and how healthier communication can transform the way we love.
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00:00 Welcome
09:42 Relationships and Compatibility
21:26 Understanding Personal Preferences
41:48 Health, Gifts, and Wellness Talk
52:25 Handling Rejection and Connection
01:03:38 When Partners Won’t Change
01:15:34 Guided Intimacy Meditation
01:27:52 Therapy Retreats and Relationship Coaching
01:38:47 Trust, Boundaries, and Communication
01:47:56 Personality Types in Relationships
01:59:09 Common Relationship Myths
02:11:07 Exploring Preferences and Interests
02:25:36 Stoicism and Modern Relationships
02:38:35 Confidence Through Connection
02:49:03 Dating Profile Advice
03:05:15 Anxiety, Medication, and Online Content
03:19:17 Media, Online Content, and Mindful Consumption
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I’m sorry, Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn is her name? So, her last name has porn in it? If she wasn’t fated to be a sex educator I don’t know who should be.
Sean had the ac on for sure.
She Thai she just banged a to of dudes and thinks she’s an expert. Every humans different and likes different stuff. There’s no expert on sex
The last 6 letters are ai porn.
One More Thing: Music.
We🌸can respond in *that way* by focusing on a very very good guitarist. At the concert, preferably😆 NOT the player themselves, but how they master the strings. Our bodies are like guitars.🎸🎆
Drummers can have the same effect.🥁🎆
There’s something the Ph.D. didn’t cover😂💃🏻👠👠
Shawn clearing his throat when she makes him nervous. 😂😂😂
i feel personally attacked that he lumped long beard into toxic masculinity. lol
Dr porn is gunna tell us something guys
Lord please send me a great Christian man that enjoys this topic only with me! And knows how to shoot a gun
You probably should have youtube’s Hoe-Math on as a guest Shawn. He has documented what has happened to men and women pretty well.
I am going to watch the entire episode but I’ll be honest the minute she said she’s kinky and will try anything once…. what ANYTHING ONCE, she lost all credibility for me. These so called therapists are all the same (ive come across a few on podcasts) always have these traits). If she’s that open to all sorts then there was a name for these sorts of women (the word starts with an S and ends in a T) and its no longer used anymore because morals have completely gone out the window and replaced with apparently progressive, more open to anything modernised ways of thinking which is now normalised todays attitudes that replace decent morals. Morals now regarded as outdated because people like their sin!!! Even regarding warped and perverted ways of behaving is now laughed at as being normal to anyone who thinks otherwise. People are so far gone with being brainwashed and away from Christianity they either can’t or dont want to see it both! Anyome like me who says otherwise seen as being a prude and stuck in some sort of dark age. Puf it this way, she doesn’t come across as some sophisticated lady.Interesting persona, she’s dressed in red low cut neckline although which shows her cleavage. A bit of a loose women now regarded as ok and normal. I think I’ll stick with my Catholic values thanks. Her assessment that people need to be sexually compatible is just nonsence and advocating for fornicating outside of marriage to ensure compatibility. There are statistics that show marriages are more likely to fail if you cohabit before marriage, abortion rates go up too. You can get to know everything about a person without bedding them first!!
nothing better else to do is have a guest talk about y no one is f#$%ing.🤦🏽♂. I don’t hav that issue, but who cares
Thank you Shawn for highlighting sex education and having me on the show! Loved our conversation 🙏🏼
Lots of pearl clutching men in the comments. Wow.
Did we really need to know such personal things about Shawn Ryan and also personal things about her? She really wanted us to know about herself seemed a little strange.
Why
32:38 Purple Heart. Duh. Phew this is a slog
Hey Doc… Bear down.
He really does turn into a little blushing kid when he talks to women about sex 😂 I love the humility to be honest 🎉
take a shot every time Shawn says “right on” then call your sneaky link
Couples sitting inches away on the couch but miles apart spiritually is so common. My parents started sleeping in separate rooms when we became teenagers. Theyre still married after 30+ years. I think people can love each other but not be in love with each other as they age. It makes sense. Real love is rare anymore. We just tolerate people. The difference is its more normal now to just call it quits and walk away.
Weird concept, if you’re not attracted to each other or don’t have compatibility, your sex life is not good. Reason 101 why most college educated people wasted their money and time.
I’m surprised Eric Swalwell let fang fang do such a high-vis public interview
Nice lady but she needs Jesus
one thing ive noticed watchin this pod is how much the guests mimic shawns facial touching
Oh Shawn. You go from interviews with Tier 1 Operators, Aliens, Demons, Pedo Hunters, to Taint Messagers…that’s quite the spectrum of topics.
Please, please tell me that Shawn took her out on the shooting range.
Im so sick of women trying to tell us what is wrong with relationships when it women that is so messed up and why it’s all went down hill. It absolutely is not men at all.
I think she is full of it. This is like taking advice from a woman’s magazine, written by a woman. stopped watching at about 12:00
Bring Father Ripperger back please😞
Your right. It’s because they or something causes them to lose that flame 🔥. I think role play would help. Communication is a major issue. We have to try and make it seem like we just got together. Or at the beginning of the relationship. Relationships are complicated. I was just ghosted 👻 after 15. Years two months ago. Because she took care of a sick mom who needed 24. Hour care. So. Lack of spending time. Plus I’ve found out she’s a dismissive submissive avoidant narcissist. Major problem.
I tried to watch this but couldn’t finish. This makes two “sexperts” and both of them are new age morons. Sex is not transactional, and not just something to be done. Sex is to serve two purposes. The most important is communicating the deepest form of love between two people. To give that other person your full soul feeling and committment. The other is reproduction. But this woman like the last simply makes it about the act and how people need to talk about the “things” they want to do together. New age BS
The colors of that painting are PERFECT for you studio!!!
She’s a Super Freak! Super Freak! Super Freakaaaa
Did you ask a marine these questions? Good God
The biggest problem I see is shifting blame and not taking accountability, which is for both ends of a relationship. Saying one gender is entirely responsible for the failure of all relationships… that’s pretty wild.
Who else said yup I’m calling her Sacagawea
Wow. Im not a foot guy. Lol
Why is she wearing a low cut top on a podcast? What happened to morals and standards?
I know you can’t please everyone, but for your sake, read the comments and plan accordingly. Huge fail from this dummy.
Brah f that shit when you have kids who gives a shit about kids brah
I pray your wife leaves you. You have betrayed her by betraying Jesus.
Beautiful way of teaching!💖✨️🌞Love Dr.Tara! Thank You Together 👍
Why Shawn?
I love the idea of this topic and her name has porn in it. Coincidence I think not …
Katholic shenanigans AGAIN….. Repent and believe in Christ ALONE.
Evil