Sex Expert Exposes What Porn Does to Your Brain
What is OnlyFans and porn REALLY doing to an entire generation? In this Hot Question, sex and relationship expert Dr. Tara sits down with Shawn Ryan to unpack one of the most uncomfortable cultural shifts of our time — a generation that’s lonelier, more medicated, and having less sex and dating than any before it. From dopamine addiction and “mindless consumption” to dating apps, the loneliness epidemic, and the hidden cost of growing up on screens, this conversation goes places most people are afraid to.
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10:40 Hell no. I want to see what kind of bogus premise that study started with.
“Ethical Porn”.
And there it is, the continued justification of detrimental and unethical behavior. Just don’t use the mainstream porn, it’s unethical. But ethical porn? Have at it!
I overcame alcohol, cigarettes, drugs porn and masturbation trough Jesus Christ. He is helping me with gluttony as well. Trust in our Lord. Our God is great!
Porn is a degenerative engagement, it isnt good for our brain chemistry. Walk away from it
Don’t believe this Shawn Ryan garbage. Listen to what God says! 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 “Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
Personally I see no way to change as this is part of the culture now. Society has to come up with something within the culture to improve inter personal communication, and well, our tech society is still full steam working on just the opposite. So embrace and hope for the best.
This is bullshit! Don’t go to bars. Quit pharmaceuticals. Quit “socializing!” Grow your own food, medicine, and herbs! ADHD is from too much sugar on the brain! Quite eating rice and sugar!
This is so stupid, @ShawnRyanShow!
I’m divorced, twice. I’m 51, train 2 times daily, eat a very strict diet, and pretty much self-centered. Porn is a blessing for guys like myself. Sexual drive is intense, but not greater than my desire to get my 2nd workout complete. No nut before weights, lol. Selfish people like myself can get gratification at will with Porn. No need for cuddling, conversation, or compromising.
12:42 hits. I enjoy finding new videos than watching much of time. I have to say, I’ve quit many drugs in my life. At one point addicted to cocaine, pills (oxy) and Xanax. Quit all those but Fkin porn like going three days is huge for me. Ima keep praying on it
never met one person from online dating
porn is for men in sexless marriage. too complicated of a subject for this type of show i guess.
Wtf I love being out I’m 39 ,but still act like a child, as I’m single I love being out, my hobbies include staring at attractive women and dribbling,getting drunk, good food and the gym, I go to the gym to look at fit women bending over😂😂😂😂 I have a six pack already so I just chill and perv!!!!!! Im joking but I absolutely love talking to new people!!!! In person I love people!!!!!! This is so so sad!!!!!!
wearing red and showing parts of her breasts…..not credible on the subject
Ill disagree with her on porn. It’s negative and harmful…PEROID!
NOT shawn pointing out a womans weight gain! That was soooo 75lbs agoooo!
Dating apps are like trafficking network. But I did finally find someone after taking a 7month break. I had no idea of dark dating world. You have to so cautious. Even using safety measures you can find yourself in unsafe environments.
She’s recommending dating apps, credibility lost.
Porn is bad, if you’re addicted to it and if you pay for it. But it could also be convenient. It’s not good for a young man to go out into the world horny AF, that’s a good way to make a good mistake.
The problem is the women, hate to say it but it’s the truth. By the time they’re ready to settle down, they’ve reached pornstar level nastiness . It bleeds into everything else . Generally speaking…
Damn Shawn, you are one of the only people that I see that addresses real world current events and social issues and things that actual women, men and children go through, I appreciate it, just when I thought I had respect for you go and do something like this and it raises the bar, thank you and God bless you brother, from a Veteran to another thank you
There is even soft porn on YouTube
While YouTube helps promote sexual site ads
Touched on this in the interview. My employer recently hired about a dozen new people. Most are in their 20s. They all have this flat disconnected demeanor, like they are all medicated, and just socially unable to interact with others. It’s weird.
What’s Next Shawn ? Dont tell us that you are interviewing Fleece Johnson aka the booty warrior. 😂
Bring back shame, that’s a core problem in society.
This world is so messed up….
Thank you for reminding me!
Who Owns all the Porn sites? Gews!!
There is so much to blame for this that did not happen overnight, and I will put liberalism and feminism at the spear front of this. As well adventitious of technology like social media, cell phones, and A.I social engineering the minds to downfall of society.
I’ve studied psychology. This is only true for insecure people who are likely to develop delusions. In other words, shes projecting and talking about herself.
12:00 ” Fair market value” 🤣
Im gen z and never did zoom in school. Gen z in my area are always hanging out with friends. It’s probably the younger gen z like that since older gen z arent really like that.
‘Sex expert’… knows neuroscience? …. Doubt it.
Porn in general is bad. Mainstream, ethical, or soft it doesn’t matter. It’s bs and shouldn’t be watched.
07:00 – ” ohh I need adderall to focus ” is not what a preteen boy thinks. I agree that drugging boys ain’t the answer, but nor is ridiculing them,, and saying you grew up differently. 1: you are female, girls are far more comfortable with classrooms on average than boys are. There is so much data on that, it isn’t debated anymore. The solution is to teach kids, especialy boys, how to build a treehouse in the woods, with a saw and some rope. How to fish, hunt, butcher, build a good fire….anything, but sitting in a classroom for hours listening. Maths can be incorporated into so much practical stuff. Constantly filter kids by ability and aptitude, say Mike is amazing at maths ? Set him onto electronics… and on and on.
Why is it that I hated history at school, yet was fascinated by it a few years after I left school? I’m not alone there. Why is it that I didn’t learn a single thing about how money really works, how we create money when we borrow it, how to make use of this fact, maybe write a biz plan. Why did I leave school unable to build a wall, unable to do anything mechanical…..
Almost everyone knows this. Yep, a lot of teachers may be showed up for being incompetent, unions will resist, but it’s a small price to pay.
I call this cap. Everything that THEY don’t want you to enjoy is dangerous. There’s always something they want to control, how about letting people enjoy what they do. Imagine making flavor vapes illegal because kids are getting addicted, well where are the parents? Porn is blocked because of kids, and yet!!! These same kids can run away to California and get a whole sex change and that’s ok???? Oh, it’s the narrative. They say sexual fornication is the only sin the bible doesn’t forgive? But murder is forgivable? 😂 someone really wrote that shit. In all of the history of pornography, porn is now a problem, why? Because people are making millions off of it. Porn was never a problem when it was regulated in silicon valley. Porn is destructive to the brain 😂 imagine what going to school is like in 2026 with activist pretending to be teachers. But this, this topic is a serious problem. 😂 we have bigger problems in this nation and the world besides people having sex. 😂😂
I am glad she is telling her story but, porn is not a tool – it is the most tragic actions people do in all of humanity. The less of this garbage and the more intimacy you have with you real partner can never compare to the bliss one has with another – when it is CLEAN.
He went from interviewing vets to this shit, People have been expressing how much they dont trust and dislike this lady FOR DAYS ever since the clips were posted on his yt shorts and he still posted this trash.
It seems that this is a systematic breaking down of society. Young people don’t learn the basics of social interaction. This affects their work environment and the private lives.
Dr. Tara is frigging gorgeous 🔥
” Ethical porn”? I think the word for this is “contronym”?
Porn changes your physical facial features it makes you less attractive. Stop porn for a month and your facial features will start looking better you will have an attractive glow. There is a spiritual aspect to it which works super naturally to change the physical. Porn is a negative frequency and frequency can change matter. This goes for both male and female. Stop watching porn for a month and you’ll see how attractive you’ll start to look.
I don’t understand as a professed Christian to have non Christians I can’t understand why. Is it for the unsaved ? It’s very confusing. I don’t hear her saying to go to Church to meet someone when he says a bar. I mean will Jesus be at this bar? I know that she’s clearly not mentioning Jesus, or neither is he. So I am confused. I enjoy the show but I like all the. Christian guests and i don’t like Catholic stuff or stuff like this , but again the idea of all of this is right what she’s saying but at the same time solution should be Jesus.
Porn is evil and is not healthy for human beings. Save it, I used to be one of those people that used to say, there is nothing wrong with it, it’s good and mind your own business. I grew up in the 80’s and if you wanted to meet women you had to go out and introduce yourself, interact and communicate with the opposite sex. You had to get to know them and ask them for a date.
By the mid to late 90s porn was on the new internet and by the early 2000’s it was all over the internet for free! And it does mess with your mind!!!
Then the adult dating sites too! I would have women drive right to my condo for sex! NO class! I would ask after we were laying in bed after sex, what if I was a serial killer or a whacko? I’m not worried about it, I liked your photo and you sounded normal on the phone.
Sadly, I did this easily with over 100 women. I tried having a relationship with a few of them but it could never work! How can you EVER trust a woman that meets guys online and F s them from a dating site without even meeting them first in a public place.
Oh yeah, and the constant texting they would do! Ya can’t help but think, are they texting with the next guy they are planning on F ing? This also works in reverse too.
So, between watching porn and the adult dating sites this kept me from having a NORMAL man/woman relationship with normal sex.
After 10 years I had nothing to show for it! Now the sight of porn disgusts me and makes me want to puke!
Not to worry all governments are not allowing you to have a flick/stork unless you like they watching you while you do it. VPNXpress
I love your interviews so much. Thank you for having such amazing guests. Thank you for even having a show, honestly. We need to hear these stories. I can’t afford a patreon account right now, but I wish I could support the work you do. I’m a huge fan ❤❤❤❤❤
Orania SA has exited clownworld. Their TFR is high even among Gen Z. Their system is the only one in the western world that is working.
Porn, dating apps, it’s all a scam. You need to go out and live!!! That’s how you meet people
5 hours of socializing a week?? Man I’m way below the average here lol
Old married people wondering why their sex life sucks lol.
Peace and blessing 👑