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Its not weakness to talk and open up, but it leaves you feeling vulnerable, open for further damage. Its not that its weak to talk, or being shamed, its the actual feeling of opening up that is the hardest. It doesnt feel good, it feels open, you’re vulnerable. And people in that situation are already feeling damaged, they feel weak within themselves, so to open up only makes that worse, it brings it to the surface, and you have to trust that it wont damage you further allowing yourself to be seen like that. Also a lot of times, yoy may have people you love and care about, but you know theyre not the right person to be opening up to anyway, they dont know how to handle it, how to help you. And some people dont have anyone who loves or cares for them. So this constant rhetoric of ‘oh just open up, its not weakness’ they dont understand what it truly means for people to actually do that. Sometimes its easier to go and seek professional support, it can be kept secret, you dont open yourself to those you care about that you know cant deal with it, maybe you feel shame within yourself opening up to loved ones. Atleast professional support is its own seperate space, that you can keep seperated from your every day life.
Theres free professional support services for all age groups in australia, i know of some if any need contact info.
People in these situations are at their absolute emotional capacity.. you cant just say, just talk to someone. That doesnt work, and it just adds more pressure to the individual.
Not hating on bryce’s point, but its deeper than this.
When i was in the navy a buddy of mine i worked with on the boat was struggling. He was like movie star handsome young dude but he got a girl pregnant and was terrified to become a dad. He thought he wouldn’t be a good father. I dont think anybody else knew.
I have kids so i talked with him for about 3 hours about it all and how great a guy he was and how good a dad i thought he could be. He smiled n told me i was right. Gave him a hug n i went home for the night. He hung himself about an hour later. That one still bothers me.
Lost my only sibling to suicide 😢 RIP Zara Elizabeth Pyers❤️
I’m 53 and been plotting this for a while but can’t figure it out. My 13 year old granddaughter moved in and she slowed the thoughts down. Maybe that’s why my daughter had her move in?✌️
Wise words from a young man, very inspiring 🥰
You leave them neither in a worse position nor in a better position
Stop performing. It’s exhausting for everyone underneath all social masks. Here’s the truth:
The most common reason for suicide in teen years is feeling inferior. People like making other people be inferior to them. Which means they don’t really dislike them committing suicide.
Pharma profits from SSRI’S and social media companies propping up the stock market make it almost impossible to get to the actual problems and solve them.
People that hurt themselves just want to kill the pain but they mistake the pain for themselves. It’s hard sometimes but it can always be fixed! Expectations are false realities fed to you. Just be, it’s so much more free.
“Transparency leads to TRANSFORMATION!” 🙌 Thank you Bryce and thank you JESUS for using these vessels of yours to bring TRUTH to the masses! 🩸🔥🕊
At one time when i tried but failed i was excited to leave this world
And if someone reaches out to you, don’t take their weapon away from them. Just sit next to them and genuinely talk.
I’ve been s*icidal this year, I haven’t told anyone about it
Joy comes from overcoming adversity not from never experiencing it.
Yehwah told me with Jesus that he wants us all to love each other as he loves us. Re read that. Dont carry any hate even if its your enemy pray for them. We have to start getting this right.
What if there’s no one to reach out to that truly cares?
What do you say?
Example?
Life sucks talking to people brings them down too . I don’t
Want to put that on anyone
Canada has a program for assisted self deletion and more Canadians have taken advantage of that program then what were KIA in either world war.
What’s funny is tha people pretend to care and then cyber bully tf out of disabled people, gay people, and target minorities are misogynists. Like you people don’t care
so very sad our youth is struggling like this
I’m 35 and struggling with feeling a burden and alone tonight. I just read Psalm 22.❤ God bless yall and all yalls dogs too.
Men.. it’s highest in men, young and old.
I’ve had thoughts of this due to chronic pain. If I take meds I’m drugged up and if I don’t I struggle to get out of bed. I have a loving husband, son, daughter in law and grandchildren….but it still crosses my mind at times.
This is what happens when children grow up in decadence. Take them phones away until they actually need them and at that point limit socials, and monitor like a MF. They need chores, work, raise animals, etc., STRUGGLE a little bit!
So true, a good friend of mine as close as a brother could be kept calling me with a needle loaded crying saying life would be better without him. I talked him down so many times tried to get him to stay with me and we would figure it out. One time he didn’t call me and then it was to late. I blamed myself for so long telling myself I should have just drove there and took him with me, almost crawled into a bottle over it. I know now it’s not my fault and I keep him in memory and photo. R.I.P. brother Shane
Beautiful young man… may God hold you in His Sacred Heart and protect you on your journey of helping young people who feel unseen and lost. EVERY soul is so very precious, and deeply loved by God. Oh Sacred Heart of Jesus we place our trust in You… Mary our Mother, please help our beautiful young, please protect them from all evil 🕊️♥️🙏🏼
I was there for a long time. As incredible as the brain is, it will also absolutely keep you from reaching out to anyone. Its like having a 2nd voice in your head thats telling you you’re no good, worthless, no one cares, not their problem, why bother, ect. It took all the strength I had just to type the doc office number into the phone. Then sit there for a half hr before I could actually hit call. Then try to work up a voice to tell them I needed mental health help. Every second of that phone call was an eternity. The entire time my brain told me they knew how weak I was, judging me, wasting their time.
I know that phone call saved my life. And as hard as your brain works against you every second of every day, it gets better. I promise.
My thinking or quote that helped me is “if you let go now, it can never get better”
Blessing to you
Boomers don’t actually fkin care as long as they get a million for the house they bought for a cigarette and a deerhide😢
Bright young man. He sounds Christy! Blessings
I would answer every phone call from a teen who was suicidal. I understand not wanting to be here but you’re life is worth something, especially to the ones who love you. I lost my dad, mom, and baby brother all 1 year apart. I’d give anything, except my soul or family, to have them back.
Bryce Crawford, a name to be remembered for his works to improve his Country 🙏
The truth is, what people struggles with, is lies from the devil. Thoughts in their head. All kinds of negative and destructive things.
There really are not anything to be afraid of or worry about.
My brother in law hung himself. I was too young to pick up the signals, I was not a born again christian back then. I did not know Gods word.
The bible is the only book in the world that can set you free and help you.
Get rid of social media and cell phones and that’ll all change!!
Suicide does not end the pain…it just passes it on to those that u love the most!!!
I lost my brother in law to suicide 3 yrs ago. Please get help ! You’re not alone.
I have been depressed my whole life. I never really though about seriously tàking my life because it is the greatest sin you can commit. And I don’t want to hurt my family. Even at 71 your family still love.
LIFE IS HARD !! RISE ABOVE AND BE STRONG!!!🙏🙏🗽🦅🦅🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏
Social media is the enemy
Talk the talk and walk the walk. If you have any feeling at all, or any knowledge that someone you know is In a spot, call them, ask to chat, make an Honest effort to give your time, listening, loving and lifting up. Simply saying, ugh I should give “them” a call, I know they’ve been having a rough time, DO IT! Sometimes keeping the brain busy is the best way to keep it from leeching onto the bad things. Our brain can be such a hard fight, but don’t let a big meatball lead you a stray, keep that beautiful chin up and scrape and fight your way to a more level ground.
As a child. A friend of mine, whose parents were always arguing because they were struggling to feed their kids, hung himself in the cellar. His note stated that this was his way of helping the family. He would become one less mouth to feed.
I play CODM and was in a FB group. Some random guy messaged me because I was wearing a sports team hat from our state. He literally lives like a hour from me. His mother just passed away out of nowhere. He is at this point and thankfully God allowed our paths to cross because I have been his go to to deal with the situation at hand. I now have a responsibility to keep this man alive. A responsibility to inform him he was created for a purpose and his life is meaningful. He’s still here so praise Jesus!
Same goes for us vets…. 23 a day tears me apart!
Im 40 and struggle mightily with this. I wouldn’t want to talk about it because I may have a pretty good argument on why I feel this way and I wouldn’t wanna convince another maybe it isn’t such a bad idea. I have 2 reasons on why I wouldn’t, but the struggle gets realer every day
Give a hand to the weak ones, give bread to the hungry ones, give clothes to naked ones and give attention to the youth who is lost ✅🙏
Create parents that love their children more than their status in the workplace, community etc
You cannot tell me these teens running around killing people…
Have parents that do not realize their children have issues
Stop blaming laws, guns, video games, religion etc
Parents should control what their kids see, hear, experience etc
Many parents need to be held accountable..
Including parents of bullying
You better believe they know their children are lil arrogant turds.. then meet the bullied child and their parents and so
“Oh no my child would never bully another child. We raised them better”
And then these children that have bad parents, living in a situation where no human or animal should live…
Stop being lil candy buts and stand up for the innocent, the naive, the ones that are too little to seek help
Please Brothers and Sisters wake up and unite across all boundaries and be better people, helping each other instead of trying to one up someone
Seek Jesus with all of yourself and let Him guide you to the higher purpose He put you in this world for…..
Teach The Lord’s Law
I beg you
In Christ
❤
Root problem: society has said that men are toxic, therefore they have DESTROYED the father child relationship. Your “mom” is NOT the super hero you think she is. They leave children with NO hope because they see how evil their “mom” is and they end it, because they have NO support.